As you will see below I have updated on the pictures. They are of parks, petting zoos and the lake. Gabe, Deze and Nomuken all went tubing and in the boat. Tajia refused to go.
As you may have noticed Geromy is in very few of the pics. this is not because he is taking the pics....that would almost always be me. He has been working alot, so the park and lake time, its just me and the kids. Sometimes I meet a friend there.
We have gotten another new kitten, its name is Diego. I do not have a picture of him, as my memory card is full till today. Our computer is dead, so my updates will not be often. I am on a borrowed computer at the moment.
Gabe is having issues with anger. He is starting to throw things more and more. He tells me that he is mad that daddy is not here all the time, I wish that I had a fix for this one! Over all he is doing good, he is obsessed with numbers lately. He can tell add big numbers and subtract them, but he cannot count to 10 when items are placed in front of him and he is asked to count them individually.
Tajia is well Tajia! She is started kindergarden in a month, she is nervous about it. She is afraid of meeting new kids. But when we go to parks she has new friends within minutes of being there, so she will be fine.
Nomuken is doing really good. I am pretty sure she will be getting eye surgery in september as the minute her glasses are off her right eye wanders. I am nervous about this. She is getting brave about swimming and writing.
Deze is well wild....she has been pulling out her own hair more often, I have no idea what to do with her. She hurts herself alot. It hurts me to see her do it. I am looking for a PCA for her at the moment. The issue is trust.....I am not sure I can trust someone with her. She is alot to deal with.
We got back her official diagnosis forms finally (only took 4 months) and she is down as Pervasive Developmental Disorder/Autism: moderate to severe. As well as phonological disorder (its a speech disorder where they will always leave off the beginning and ends of words). She was dropped from OT cause they do not know what to do with her.
I am not sure what to do with her either, other then take her home and love her. I laugh at the messes...or I would loose it on her, and that is not ok. Gabe and her fight alot cause they both parrot words. They also parrot each other! Gets interesting to say the least....
I have a feeling we are going to need a lawyer when school starts for Deze. They are telling us over and over that she is normal.....and they are refusing to help her at all. They want her in a normal 4yr old room, with normal kids.....18 kids to 2 teachers. Its not going to go over well with me. School preaches about early intervention....yet we have 2 diagnosis on her and they refuse to help her at all.....
We are without a computer for a while. Our modem is not working. I will update from the wii and friends computers when I can. I miss being able to vent on here! Hopefully soon we will get it back up and going....Hope that everyone as a good summer...
Edited to add: I did get a comment a while back asking how we were ok with allowing Deze and Gabe to break things and make messes like wild kids. I did delete said comment. They are my kids and I love them just the way they are. I do the best that I can do. And until you walk a mile.....just shut up....if you don't like it don't read it!!!!
To those of you who read this blog and like to see the updates and the pictures, thank you....and feel free to leave comments!!
